Bride price may be affected and devalued by things outside the woman's control.

A bride price or dowry can also be a much needed windfall for desperate families.

In general, bride price represents the recognition of the social and economic value of women.

5.4 One of the barriers blocking the advancement of women is the practice of bride price.

Exchanges of gifts have become bride price and women are still considered as the man's possession.

12.54 The custom of bride price is one practice that impedes a woman's ability to leave an abusive relationship because of societal acceptance that once a woman is married and bride price exchanged, the woman becomes the property of the man's family.

Traditionally, the payment of a price for the bride is usually paid and this is known as the lobolo.

The custom from the past of paying a bride price has not been fully eradicated and is encountered from time to time.

One of the reasons for the delay in marriages is because the bride price payment is often beyond the means of most families.

If bride price encourages competition between women and applies only to women, not to men, that should alert women to the discriminatory nature of the practice (Jalal, 1998).

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There are arguments against the practice that the effects of bride price include valuing women in material terms, their virginity, chastity or sexual purity, capacity to reproduce, educational qualifications and labour.

We need those in authority to take the law more seriously, but change will happen fastest when communities recognize that the economic and social value of educating girls outweighs their bride price.

The Malvatumauri Council of Chiefs have formalized the monetization of bride price by placing a value of VT 80,000 as the upper limit in any payments, contrary to Article 5 of CEDAW.

Bride wear red outfit with heavy gold ornaments. Once the ceremony is completed then the groom takes the bride to his home.

However, in the recent decade women in Vanuatu have seen bride price as discriminatory as well as giving licence to men to physically assault them and placing women in the control of the men.

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Practices such as the payment of a dowry or bride price to the woman's family reinforce the concept that a man is literally purchasing his wife and has the right to do whatever he wants with her.

Most cultures in Vanuatu demand that bride price be paid to the relatives of the woman, where women are exchanged for cattle, pigs, money, traditional mats etc. Although these gifts are supposed to be tokens of appreciation to the woman's parents, often they have been regarded as a price for the woman.

The bride would then become part of the man's family.

In a marriage for example, the bridegroom's extended family will contribute to the bride price and this contribution is regarded as an obligation that will be returned in some future time when one of his relations gets married.

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Rituals of engagement and marriage differed between the different islands but generally a marriage was formalized when exchanges of gifts were made accompanied with the payment of a bride price which was presented from the bridegroom's family to the bride's family.

However the divorce rate is very low and there appears to be two reasons for this firstly, the majority of women continue to be dependent on their husband and fear the repayment of bride price despite their husband committing adultery.

c) men and the women should obtain consent from their parents and give their consent for the union (as bride and groom) if the bride or the groom is under 19 years old

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In most cases the bride would from her parents' home to her husband's.

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They were married and the husband took his bride to his home in the South.

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The damaging impact of active gender discrimination such as bride burning and female infanticide is clear.

The wedding ceremony is arranged by the bride s family. The bride and groom are seated separately.

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This is because in most places in Vanuatu bride price is very expensive and families of women often find it difficult to pay back the man's family and also the women feel that they are owned by their husbands as the husbands had to pay a lot of money, pigs and mats for them.

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