Sami's body was wrapped up in a comforter.

And when we took her to the hospital she needed 32 stitches to put back her intestine into her body.

So to invoke another metaphor, if you imagine social networks as a kind of vast fabric of humanity I'm connected to you and you to her, on out endlessly into the distance this fabric is actually like an old fashioned American quilt, and it has patches on it happy and unhappy patches.