It's up to you to decide.

I eagerly await your decision.

Break your resolution into a series of small steps

Talk to me about your decision, Dr. Abdi, and your decision, Dr. Mohamed, to work together for you to become a doctor and to work with your mother in these circumstances.

Or your resolution may have been more altruistic to help those in need, or to reduce your carbon footprint.

What I want instead, is for you to be whole, intact, and functional enough to go out and save the world, after you've decided you need to do it.

Every person in this room do this think of the last time you had a decision to make where you were worried to do the right thing, where you wondered, What should I be doing?