I admit that I started screaming and cursing and our friend broke down crying

and she shall put the clothing of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in your house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month and after that you shall go in to her, and be her husband, and she shall be your wife.

But if you will not hear it, my soul shall weep in secret for your pride and my eye shall weep bitterly, and run down with tears, because Yahweh's flock is taken captive.

And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.

But if ye will not hear it, my soul shall weep in secret places for your pride and mine eye shall weep sore, and run down with tears, because the LORD's flock is carried away captive.