Some sat in darkness and in the shadow of death, being bound in affliction and iron,

Such as sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, being bound in affliction and iron

You would also feel humiliated when a family member galls ill, and you go around asking those who are worth it and those who are not for the cost of his treatment.

One view of difference between shame and embarrassment says that shame does not necessarily involve public humiliation while embarrassment does that is, one can feel shame for an act known only to oneself but in order to be embarrassed one's actions must be revealed to others.