It's so easy to go too far!

Aren't they lovely?

Alisa was very generously in the process of giving birth to our first child (AV

Aren't they nice together?

Elisa and Marcela fled to Portugal.

AV We, or I?

Alisa's the president of Public Radio International.

Alisa Miller shares the news about the news

Alisa Volkman

AV We did.

AV Nothing more to be said.

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AV That spawned a dating site.

RG AV Thank you.

AV Yes, you can see where the disconnect was happening for us.

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Push! Divine and ridiculous just counterbalance each other, don't they?

AV It's true.

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AV Our eight week old son is somewhere in here, and I want to see if Rufus can actually quickly identify him.

RG The far left. AV

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Here's a slide that Alisa Miller showed at a previous TED Talk.

Now I think of our story as starting a few years earlier. AV That's true.

AV Yes, you can see where the disconnect was happening for us.

Let's talk parenting taboos Rufus Griscom Alisa Volkman

So how did these two lovebirds come to meet? Alissa had come to Kenya and for several months she had been working with the people living in Kibera.

Alisa was very generously in the process of giving birth to our first child and I was there with a catcher's mitt.

AV I don't want to embarrass him too much. But I am going to give him three seconds.

Alisa Volkman So this is where our story begins the dramatic moments of the birth of our first son, Declan.

A few years later this film was shown in Japan, prompting a producer to offer Milano a five album record deal.

AV It's true. So like we said, the early years were really wonderful, but they were also really difficult.

AV Our eight week old son is somewhere in here, and I want to see if Rufus can actually quickly identify him.

AV So taboo number three you can't talk about your miscarriage but today I'll talk about mine.

AV Yes, and I often joke with Rufus when he comes home that I'm not sure he would actually be able to find our child in a line up amongst other babies.

AV So you can imagine, I mean again, the first few months were difficult, but we'd come out of it, and were really shocked to see this study.

AV A quick bonus taboo for you, that we should not be working together, especially with three children and we are.

Alisa helps Lars (or whoever the player has chosen to use in Scenario Campaign) battle the waves of enemies and has an AI system that grows as she participates in battle.

So you can imagine, I mean again, the first few months were difficult, but we'd come out of it, and were really shocked to see this study.

AV And we kind of feel that the happiness gap, which we talked about, is really the result of walking into parenting and really any long term partnership for that matter with the wrong expectations.

A quick bonus taboo for you, that we should not be working together, especially with three children and we are.

AV Well, I'm glad Rufus is bringing this up, because you can notice where he dips in the first years where I think I was doing most of the work.

Well, I'm glad Rufus is bringing this up, because you can notice where he dips in the first years where I think I was doing most of the work.

Babble.com publishers Rufus Griscom and Alisa Volkman, in a lively tag team, expose 4 facts that parents never, ever admit and why they should. Funny and honest, for parents and nonparents alike.

Alisa Miller, head of Public Radio International, talks about why though we want to know more about the world than ever the US media is actually showing less. Eye opening stats and graphs.