In many parts of India, a woman will go to great lengths to avoid saying her husband s name and even that of elder men in the family. Instead, she will use a pronoun or father of my child .

It s a strange pronoun or adjective. It s probably best to stick with attribution, whatever some sort of formal body has identified them as, or if you are quoting people, they are going to be using terrorism left and right. Use some sort of qualifier.